I am so excited to turn 20! I'm enjoy being 19 but 20 is on its way :D I hope I have my own place not to long after I turn twenty. Their are so many things that I want to do and I've been pre planning already. My mom gets upset when I talk about getting my own place. She thinks that she did something wrong, which isn't true. I just want to have my own space and start my own life. I'm hoping my bf is thinking the same thing, because he is 24 and hasn't moved out of his moms place. His mom have issues with letting him grow which is selfish but, my bf has his own mind as well. Anyway, it's about me and my plans, he can either join along or stay behind. I love him but I don't want to make anyone do anything that they aren't interested in doing. Hold on, before I go off sounding selfish.. I asked him how it felt moving in together but I felt like that was too pushy and the idea is out their. He said with excitement and he would enjoy waking u to seeing and being with me all of the time BUT..he isn't participating in the home search. O.o so I'm not going to mention it to him anymore, I want him to want this not do it by force.