My mind and ears remember me saying it, but DH insists I didn't say what I thought I said. Another late night going to sleep.

I finally called a halt and said we each remember it differently. I did come back out of the bedroom. I did start to do things and when you said you would do them, I said ok, and continued with normal bedtime routine. That's the end. No need to continue. There is no right or wrong here.

Then I get that he 'hasn't felt any real love or compassion from you for the past couple of months."

Uh, I just answered, really? then I don't know what more you want or need. Cause it has been there. So look at what has been happening. Now, we both need to go to sleep. I love you. Good night.

And I went to sleep.

End of cycle. Calm. Loving. End. But I am tired of this. I need a vacation!!

Between work and him I am tired.