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The life after 80, life, the marriage
The life of the light person will be to dare to try in 80 the year after nexts, dare to indulge in material comfort, dare to challenge the fresh thing, unless especially in marriage, wedding it finish, wedding of flashing,it flash from,weddings urgent, marriage life, just like the emperor's new clothes of young peoples contemporary, demonstrate in front of the masses, and is analyzed and discussed many times; Like a pleasantly surprised drama of department too, appear on the stage hurriedly, have no enough time to leave a impression to leave away hurriedly. It is as long as the heaven and earth endure that it is not asked that perhaps for most young people, the ones that were pursued are exactly ", only asked and once had " Love and marriage, 35 year last unforgettable memory all one's life. Many modern young people generally suffer from marriage neurosis, refuse the marriage, regard marriage as the stumbling-block. They mind one's own career very much, only want to seek single freedom and happiness, not wanting marriage to bring much trouble, they are afraid any will bring the thing of the trouble to them, hide from its them if it is possible. All the time only Kenya has stayed here for the relation with girlfriend " Just the friend " Stage,it is it unwilling to involve relation of involving in, in order to can have left leave with light ones graceful at any timing.
This is full of fame and gain to lure, the world of the money right is too changeable at all, young people no longer believe anything is grown to stubbornly refuse to Chongqing, the love until the seas dry up and the rocks decay, whether they are too vivid to all have sheer assurance to the emotion at the moment, a many one is limitless suspicion and distrust too between the lovers, still singing in theme song song of the serial greatly to one's heart's content: "The feeling, what thing is it? " The girls even disclose and advertise for a life partner, there should the car that has rooms, the man with stable work works as one's own husband. Or what is more, disclose and take a stand on the net directly, would like to be raised by others oneself (anyway during school, all one's own has already been regarded as that person liking most lifetime) ,Regret, ask, rely on again one's own living a easy life young to come on only now.

Have pieces of young people move thought of marriage with great difficulty, ask oneself several answer of question unexpectedly the whole make, before getting married, beat a retreat. These questions include: If will meet the better person afterwards, can oneself guarantee it is not aroused in interest at all? Imagine in the face of his sample 30 years later, is and the love that oneself will still be unselfish so alone, OK? And oneself the meeting together become ugly can become old can become fat, person that can fall ill, can dyinging to future, will you also have idea fully responsible for him? Is there patience and he to spend such ordinary day together? Your Kenya and he share a bathroom, open a bank account together?
Put out why take reason of marriage, " got on the bus first while being what is called all the time really, and then buy one's ticket after normal time " Statement neither scandal of calling that nor the pregnant to if seeming, become by marriage essential reason yet in girlfriend to be connect with nowadays, can go to the hospital to destroy, it seems it has not been the possibility of getting married again to present the son with respect and get married. A lot of women stars have delivered, thought it in unmarried mum's speech, do not no the marriage, please so long as the child seems to become a kind of trend, get a certain praise of respect even, among the fuzzy idea, look like, have, take on, have responsibility, strong-minded new ideological trend leader also in being indistinct.

The girls can not come round to the idea either when economy can be independent it is necessary to get married in something. Have work of high salary, live in one's own house, go to look for another boy's life at this moment, come assign family beautifully make dirty, also want oneself come, cook, do washing for him, this seems to be the most impossible thing. So what very fashionable modish very much in the view of modern young people this either does it get married, single alone freer, more graceful. Look for a person, give birth to child to take too at most. The marriage is not what they want.

Perhaps it is the marriage example failing after 80 too much that frightens young people terribly, the wedding flashes, it flash from,form from,until finish,unless the simple, suddenly, promising become by cloud and mist already day by day once, some princes and princesses will live a happy life, they only believe that is only a fairy tale, realistic life is good. What than unmarried people Changshou people that get married according to statistic on the newspaper, mention interest of them either, laugh at for to live long, day sad, feel it longer. Get married, look like, imprison, it would be better one's own passing decades graceful, all kinds of happy things have been pursued, not absurd to walk and meet with in the world.

Have some boys been still suspecting all the time whether the marriage system will be the woman's scheme? The responsibility that the boy after 80 is afraid, the pressure on employment that modern young people face is very heavy, even let them unable to breath, they can not stand raising a wife, can not standing the life of many a person either, keep being first-class in the girlfriend's level. Get married want responsibility to increase boy, right to reduce them, oneself or can play after 30 year old dull, find someone to get married again, change fresh life, the late wedding seems to be the fashionable life that a kind of modern young man chooses even more!
Wonder when many view which object to the marriage have appeared, what is said: "So large that know how to get married enough when considering the age of the marriage. " Say again: "Single person than getting married to do wrong thing to be even many perhaps, but they make wrong loud one most at least. " Say too: "It is that rolling stone gathers no moss to be single. " Not only the boy thinks so, even girl mean that gives up people's attention to her, if even girl think that once gets married, bring one and no longer notice what a person disguising it she is, not pay.

Refuse it in the roar of the marriage, the weighed down with most anxieties one is the parents not daring to put one more diction.

Some words, have sympathetic response listening to very much.

Marriage restrain from, fetter each other each other actually, if even if someone think, should have, restrain from, should have responsibility can be regarded as intact a life - that very much normal even, there are very many such people after all. A lot of normal.

Vast and hazy, but must take identity of the persons who insight as out stranger's decision which seem very correct and very resolute! --The little couple who is very happy, in fact only they themselves know the flavour of life is - good and bad and really non- OK-

No matter get married, it is very important to be happy, it is the same that certainly fall in love - --

By the way, sigh with deep feeling, life is not that only the love - person failing in love is not that the eldest - one's own emotion can't be regarded as others' center either!
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