Some girl: my ex is being really nice
Some girl: ponder
Some girl:
Brainsalad: which?
Some girl: Ken
Some girl: Eric is usually nice
Some girl: besides the fact that he's fixing my comp
Some girl: or setting me up with a kit for a new one using my non dead hardware if all else fails
Some girl: and getting a friend to image my drives to get my info back
Some girl: i'm happy
Brainsalad: that's nice
Some girl: yeppers
Brainsalad: is he paying more attention to you or to smurfette during visits?
Some girl: as i said..cookies in trade to the friend
Some girl: both
Some girl: we leave the house now usually
Some girl: to avoid my mom's incessant sniping
Some girl: tho she's better lately
Some girl: and he's showing up alone to visits now
Some girl: not with mom and etc in tow
Some girl: and we are not antagonistic towards each other anymore
Brainsalad: well good. sorta
Some girl: sorta?
Some girl: why sorta?
Brainsalad: it's a rubber band kind of thing
Some girl: ?
Brainsalad: you had it stretched wwwaaaaayyyyy ooooouuuutttt
Brainsalad: and then it sprung back
Some girl: yeah?
Brainsalad: and now it's at the sprongy part
Some girl: oh..kay...
Some girl: explain sprongy part?
Brainsalad: it will probably bounce around for a while
Some girl: um...explain?
Brainsalad: out and in
Brainsalad: in and out
Some girl: lol
Some girl: that sounds like a sexual connotation
Brainsalad: well, who knows
Some girl: um..k
Brainsalad: in may not be finished
Some girl: dunno
Some girl: who can say
Some girl: who knows what would be best either
Brainsalad: right
Brainsalad: err something
Some girl: especially where Susie is concerned
Some girl: it's hard to tell
Some girl: it could be a nightmare
Some girl: checks for a pulse
Brainsalad: some people say the opposite of love is hate
Some girl: hrm
Brainsalad: I disagree
Some girl: yes, i've heard that
Brainsalad: I think that the opposite of love is disinterest
Some girl: lol
Some girl: then what would hate be?
Brainsalad: love and hate are both strong feelings
Some girl: yes
Brainsalad: they indicate that a person means a lot to you
Some girl: nod
Brainsalad: and has a large role in your life
Some girl: true
Brainsalad: disinterest is not giving a shit one way or another
Some girl: ahhh
Some girl: hrm...i don't know if i've ever had that
Brainsalad: Won the lottery: Whatever
Some girl: lol
Some girl: nope
Brainsalad: Run over by a car: sucks to be him
Some girl: LOL
Some girl: damn
Some girl: that's harsh
Brainsalad: not "Oh, goodie! He got run over by a car!"
Brainsalad: Just "Whatever."
Some girl: lol
Some girl: i've never had that
Brainsalad: Oh, I'm sure you have
Some girl: not in recent recollection
Brainsalad: It's what most of feel towards people we don't know
Some girl: oh
Some girl: i usually don't think about that
Brainsalad: The janitor of Arbies got run over by a car
Some girl: i actually cry when bad things happen to random ppl
Brainsalad: That's sort of sad, but who fuck is the janitor at Arbies to me.
Some girl: um...k
Brainsalad: five Iraqies died today in a bomb explosion
Brainsalad: they're a number
Brainsalad: sad in an abstract fashion
Brainsalad: but you won't go to bed crying about it
Brainsalad: disinterest
Some girl: okay
Brainsalad: so for a while you hated Ken
Some girl: yeah
Brainsalad: and for a while you loved him
Some girl: for a long while
Brainsalad: both very strong
Some girl: extremely so
Some girl: and perhaps not entirely dead
Some girl: i'm not sure
Some girl: it's an emotional limbo thing
Some girl: it's hard to deal with
Brainsalad: sprongy
Some girl: ahh
Some girl: so that's what that is