What I want is what you might want too:

*Everyone to be happy in their specific situations, and if you aren't happy take steps to rectify whatever is troubling you...whatever that might mean.

*Acknowledge the anger, but remember the good. There was a lot of good, and I have a lot of memories that I hope time can soften because they were some of the most important and genuine experiences I felt honored to be a part of.

*To pick battles carefully, considering all parts than led to conflict.

*Understanding of circumstances, and remember that life throws curve balls to everyone.

*Tolerance, acceptance, forgiveness, compassion, reflection, solitude, company, fondness, humor, and history.

*The chance to go back and do some things differently.

Maybe we'll all get lucky...