Why I'm against BDSM
There are a lot of people into BDSM due to "Fifty Shades Of Grey", not realizing the real psychological issues with the BDSM actions. BDSM is really abuse and sex disguised as love and passionate, kinky romance.
As explained by one website, "What is BDSM and Sadomasochism?
Torture. Violence. Pain. Slavery. The most popular BDSM porn site explains: Girls are also pulled in and out of cages, their tongues clamped, their bodies pinned, and their arms and legs strapped. The company also claims to employ “contraptions used in countries such as China for torture” as well as machines, water, metal, wood, electrodes, hooks, needles, and urination, all for the sexual persecution of women and young teenage girls.
I found some really interesting articles that explain my point of view:
http://antibdsm.blogspot.com/2011/07/critique-of-bdsm.html
http://maybemaimed.com/2009/10/02/dont-you-fret-sexism-is-alive-and-well-in-bdsm/
The links don't work here, you'd have to copy and paste them. Now don't get me wrong, sex is a loving act between two individuals, whether it's a man and a woman, a woman and a woman, or a man and a man. I understand the "safe word" policy, but it's not right the woman can't say "no" and "stop" without saying the safe word. Don't get me wrong, I'm not against spanking if it's a turn-on in a healthy relationship. But I'm against the whole "punish and sexually torture your lover through sex because he/she likes it" method.
As explained by one website, "What is BDSM and Sadomasochism?
Torture. Violence. Pain. Slavery. The most popular BDSM porn site explains: Girls are also pulled in and out of cages, their tongues clamped, their bodies pinned, and their arms and legs strapped. The company also claims to employ “contraptions used in countries such as China for torture” as well as machines, water, metal, wood, electrodes, hooks, needles, and urination, all for the sexual persecution of women and young teenage girls.
I found some really interesting articles that explain my point of view:
http://antibdsm.blogspot.com/2011/07/critique-of-bdsm.html
http://maybemaimed.com/2009/10/02/dont-you-fret-sexism-is-alive-and-well-in-bdsm/
The links don't work here, you'd have to copy and paste them. Now don't get me wrong, sex is a loving act between two individuals, whether it's a man and a woman, a woman and a woman, or a man and a man. I understand the "safe word" policy, but it's not right the woman can't say "no" and "stop" without saying the safe word. Don't get me wrong, I'm not against spanking if it's a turn-on in a healthy relationship. But I'm against the whole "punish and sexually torture your lover through sex because he/she likes it" method.
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