Oh My God, I just received a friend requested on facebook from my old friend in Arizona. She has my ex husbands last name now.................WOW. See she was married and had 4 kids and I was married with 2 kids. Her husband beat her and my husband tried to control me. Well after a bunch of drama and me and her talking to divorce attorneys we decided to tell our husbands we were done. It just so happened to be the same day.... weird I know but it actually worked out great. She told her husband in the AM I guess and he left to stay in a hotel. Well I was unaware of this and later decided I had to tell my husband. Well my husband demanded the house,car and my ring back prior to agreeing to the divorce. So I gave him all as I planned on moving back to Washington anyways. I called my friend and she brought her van over and we started to move my stuff that night into her garage as she now could allow me to stay with her. I stayed with her for a month prior to moving back to Washington as I had to save money for the move. The divorce was final 3 months later. A month after the divorce was finalized I was asked to sign over the car we had to him so he could by a new convertible mustang. I had no problem doing so as I wanted my name unassociated with anything pertaining to us but found it insane to go from a car payment of $100.00 to almost $600.00 but whatever. Then a month later I got papers asking me to sign over the house so that he could sell it as he could no longer afford our Mortgage at $1100.00 as his car payments were to high. Stuuuupid cause our house was amazing and if I would have had family down there to help with the girls I would have faught for it but whatever. LOL. Anyways after the house was sold he still had not found a new place yet and my friend and him were still friends so I received a call from her asking if I would mind if he stayed there. I knew she was struggling with the care of her kids and he could babysit in exchange for rent and I did not love him anymore so i said I did not mind. Well needless to say her and I lost touch due to the long distance thing. I then today out of the blue get a friend request from her on face book and her last name is now my ex husbands........WEIRD. I am now awaiting a response from me e-mailing her stating she evidentally had alot to tell me. LOL