i was the ONLY friend who showed up for neighbor Pam. That being said (and we'll test this theory in two weeks) I was the only one avaiable on short notice. I was willing to testify but apparently, I'll have to go back again.

I guess on the bright/down side, depending on how you want to look at it, he has no witnesses. So if she can pull 3 I'm thinking she wins.

I just feel bad because the kid is pulled between.

on the otherhand, I am less than t-minus counting 7 days before the iceback cometh.

And tonight, I took Acshe out on the beach, and when on the leash she didn't want to go out. but when I took the leash off, she followed me out as far as I wanted to go.

Sooo, unconditional love has only come from two beings other than my son, Z: Yasha and Asche. They both trusted me,I still feel bad about Yasha because I had to put Yasha down.

I'm sure many of you remember when my so called husband got mad at me for saying Yasha was one of my unconditional loves. I remember he reamed me a new asshole over that entry. Should I rejoice in him being wrong? Maybe he doesn't even remember him being wrong, more than likely the case.

And where are we at? yeah...unconditional apparently meant something different to him. see, i loved him unconditionally and in the end, he only loved me conditionally. he's proved that.

Sorry Reenie, you said it would take two years only two years later I don't have divorce papers because he's too cheap to pay for what he wanted.

You want it, you pay for it. Until then I am still Mrs. Mark A. O'Hare. And I will introduce you as my husband.

I just went to court today with my friend Pam who has been waiting 4 years for her divorce. She is seeking alimony and child support, yet I'm not. And yet it's been two years. If he wants me out of his life, then he has to pay for his lies to do it. Lordy, he is his mother's child...he did indeed learn from the best of the best.