My heart thinks in Tori Amos: "You say the word you know I will find you, or if you need some time I don't mind. I won't hold on to the tail of your kite. I'm not like the girls that you know, but I believe I'm worth coming home to..."

but its resigned to speak in Aeschylus:
"He who learns must suffer. And even in our sleep, pain that cannot forget falls drop by drop upon the heart. And in our own despair, and against our will, comes Wisdom by the awful Grace of God".