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2006-05-13 1:55 AM Something Special for Kentuckypine Mood: Happy Mother's Day Mom Read/Post Comments (4) |
Below is just a couple of many articles Kentuckypine wrote while she worked for a newspaper. I thought I would post them for others to enjoy. These are full and intact, exactly as written back when they were published in the newspaper. I love you Mom :)
Saturday, May 08, 1976 Syracuse , New York WHAT'S A GOOD MOM Everybody Has View By AUDREY XXXXXXX AUBURN — Mother's Day seemed an appropriate time to raise the questions, "What makes a good mother?" In an independent, informal survey, some very interesting answers were found. The most often described requirement seems to be patience. Nearly all those questioned appeared to believe understanding was also a prime factor. High on the list of "good mother" attributes was the ability to communicate. Most people felt that mothers who can openly communicate with their children are also the kind of mothers who are "good listeners." A first-time mother said. “A good mother has to have big ears, a small tongue and a big heart.” A mother of five youngsters said, "I think to be a good mother a woman must have a tender, understanding and forgiving heart" One 11-year-old youngster, reflecting the changing world, said, "A good mother is one who wants equal rights but isn't liberated. She can be equal without putting men down." He added, "She's one you can turn to when things go wrong, and she's always there." A soon-to-be father said, "She must really love kids, not only her own, but the neighbors' kids as well. That's the way my mother was — and she was the best." One expectant mother said she thinks it important for a mother to provide emotional security for her children. She added, "It also helps if the mother is smart enough to choose the right father." A school teacher responded to the question with, “A mother should allow a child to grow at his or her own pace. She should encourage the child to be whatever he or she wants to be, without pressure” A sixth grade pupil was a little more practical. He said, “A good mother gives you higher allowances but less work” On a more serious note, he added, “She's one who just lets me be me — like my Mom” A college student put it very simply. “You've got to give children two things, compassion and discipline; everything else will just fall into place” A grandmother with five children and 14 grandchildren offered this bit of advice: "It always seemed to me that my children responded to what they received from me. I always tried to treat them as people who happened to be just a bit shorter than I am. "Discipline, of course, is very important, but it should be administered fairly and with an explanation of its purpose. It's also important to treat children with the same respect you ask of them," she noted. Grandma said she enjoyed being a grandmother more than she did being a mother." It's a lot more fun; you can spoil the grandchildren rotten and leave the hard work to their parents — that's the very best part of being a mother in the first place." ~~~~~~~~~~~~ SYRACUSE POST-STANDARD, October 12,1974 "My Weird World" By Audrey XXXXXXX With Help from netter xxxxxx (yes our netter!!) Every now and then, writers ''run dry" and I felt that happening to myself this week, so I asked No. 1 child to help me out. It's surprising how helpful they can be when you don't want them to be. Well, anyway, she agreed to write this week's column, and here it is, unedited and in its entirety. I wish you luck... no, I wish me luck. "I WAS SITTING QUIETLY on my bed, listening to the radio, when my mom came home and yelled up the stairs: "Annetta, honey." Now, my mother never calls me anything except "Hey, dummy," unless she wants something. So, I chugged downstairs (rather warily) and said "Yeah?" "Hello, sweetheart," Mom says. Now, as anyone who knows my mother can testify, "Hello, sweetheart" means trouble. Really, all she wanted me to do was to write a "My Weird World" for her. Ten hours and 4,000 sheets of paper later. I don't know where she gets her inspiration. Well, maybe I do, but as I sit here babysitting while she is at a friend's house having coffee, and the other four little beasties are all but killing themselves playing football, I wonder how she does it. SO, WHAT SHOULD I WRITE ABOUT? Well, Mom, now you're going to get yours. Now I can tell about the times you've run around the house in hot pants and sweatshirts. You haven't lived until you've seen my-mother in a sloppy old sweatshirt and hot pants, muttering to herself as she pounds on the typewriter. And then, there's the times in the kitchen when she so unselfishly cans tomatoes and corn. But, we pay the price. The phone will ring, and she'll say to the poor person on the other end: "I can't talk now because I'm doing that (expletive deleted) corn."(Then, she'll hand the phone to me and it takes me a half an hour to explain to the other person what it was all about.) What I'm really trying to say is: In spite of all the dirty sweatshirts, the hot pants and the pounding typewriter at 3 a.m., and the smart remarks on the phone, I wouldn't trade my Mom for all the world. THAT'S THE LAST TIME I will ever let one of my kids venture their two cents in this column. She's gonna go around with all this love and spoil my whole image. Kids are for the birds. Just when you get to a point where you feel they are ready to grow up and leave the nest, they hit you with that business of "she's my mother forever" After all, I only signed an 18-year contract. What do they want from me? I hope you all enjoyed! I know I sure did when I stumbled across these in my attic! 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